I always thought that a nice, sexy, raunchy set of naughty underwear MIGHT be used to strip a woman of her active role in love-making, and make her look, feel and... well..., just BE a sex object. Within the remit of her own will, of course.

As far as I am concerned, and I may be in the minority here, relinquishing control and sinking into the 'I am an object, enjoy me' passive role is a big 'turn-on'. Not all the time, and not even regularly, but often enough to satisfy my need to let go and give pleasure.

There is something, however, which - if that's what you want to achieve - works even better than raunchy underwear.

For that, you will need a few black bin bags, very black and very thin. Some clear tape.

And a naked female body.

Do I continue fantasising, or do I stop here?