Monogamy requires an extreme amount of energy for a very limited result, i.e. maintaining the relationship's status quo; as the years rub the patina of excitement off everybody's marriage, is introducing some variety, or even just desiring it, pernicious to one's commitment to their spouse? I found out, and the journey does not stop here.
Then all grows to be impossibly romantic and the longing stretches across the miles and across time. I must admit that I am in a funny mood tonight, and may find 'situations' rather amusing, for some reason. I'll probably change my mind tomorrow. more…
Thought that I'd just say that I've just read all of this blog from beginning to end. An illuminating, if voyeuristic, activity that has taken me the best part of a week to complete.... thanks. M x more…
In 10 years time you will look upon photos of now in much the same way - time marches on and photos stop us dead in our tracks, but memories are much more vibrant than photos - memories have sound, and emotion, some memories you can taste on your tongue - you can't do that with a photo x more…
I hear you my friend. I had to leave BlogLand when I was utterly crushed and weak. I could only return when I was solid and strong. And then in another version of myself. xx more…
Brilliant! Now! Repeat this to yourself every day - at least once...as often as you like.."I like myself infinitely more than I did. My children like me more than they ever did." Hugs! ;)xx more…
Recent comments (30)
In response to: "Stolen from Miramaze. " 10 hours old
by malakeas Pro
I don't mind sleeping with Mr for a buck or two. hehehehe... xx more…
In response to: "Stolen from Miramaze. " 14 hours old
by miramaze [Member]
No 13 - would never have imagined that
Thanks for the meme SJ - I got it from two others .
:)
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In response to: "One needs a family chart " 14 hours old
by lucreziaborgia Pro
Then all grows to be impossibly romantic and the longing stretches across the miles and across time. I must admit that I am in a funny mood tonight, and may find 'situations' rather amusing, for some reason. I'll probably change my mind tomorrow. more…
In response to: "One needs a family chart " 15 hours old
by sidejump [Member]
live as far away as possible? what are you trying to say, way too subtle for me more…
In response to: "One needs a family chart " 15 hours old
by Bushka Pro
I was going to send you an image of 'Wedding Bells' but thought better....;)xx more…
In response to: "Stolen from Miramaze. " 16 hours old
by lucreziaborgia Pro
The hypocrisy of it, in so many cases! more…
In response to: "Stolen from Miramaze. " 16 hours old
by lucreziaborgia Pro
Ah-ha. Very good idea, SJ. Credit where credit is due.
The cross... was a very big one. Upright. Mostly. more…
In response to: "Stolen from Miramaze. " 16 hours old
by sidejump [Member]
I introduced this meme on here you know :)
how did you make love on a cross? more…
In response to: "Stolen from Miramaze. " 17 hours old
by Old-Nick Pro
Number 4 - damn good answer. Married women who snear at prostitutes really need to have a think.
;) more…
In response to: "That place I used to go to" 23 hours old
by malakeas Pro
(((Hugs))) more…
In response to: "That place I used to go to" 1 day old
by Bushka Pro
Glad you went...
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In response to: "That place I used to go to" 1 day old
by sidejump [Member]
sounds a wonderful experience, and what you needed. I hope you will go back. more…
In response to: "That place I used to go to" 1 day old
by stmss [Member]
I'm glad that you went.x more…
In response to: "Quantum solace" 1 day old
by lucreziaborgia Pro
No... thank you. That is a nice compliment. You took a week on my posts? I am flattered, really flattered.
xLux more…
In response to: "Quantum solace" 2 days old
by Cambridge-dieter [Member]
Thought that I'd just say that I've just read all of this blog from beginning to end. An illuminating, if voyeuristic, activity that has taken me the best part of a week to complete.... thanks. M x more…
In response to: "Quantum solace" 2 days old
by sidejump [Member]
they say we women peak when we are older, that is why we should have toyboys :) more…
In response to: "The beauty of beautiful souls" 3 days old
by sidejump [Member]
wonderful, and I hope Rosie finds the happiness she clearly deserves. more…
In response to: "The beauty of beautiful souls" 3 days old
by Bushka Pro
They might just come in handy...don't you think?
xx more…
In response to: "The beauty of beautiful souls" 3 days old
by miramaze [Member]
Bless Rosie a thousand times . Hee soul will feel your words. Lu :)
It is done :)
XXXX
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In response to: "The beauty of beautiful souls" 3 days old
by lucreziaborgia Pro
Do you use those little fellows on Strictly Come Dancing? xx more…
In response to: "The beauty of beautiful souls" 3 days old
by Bushka Pro
In response to: "Trick or treat? " 4 days old
by Mr Who [Visitor]
OMG - Beautiful xx more…
In response to: "Power of photos" 7 days old
by miramaze [Member]
You need to get a new pair of glasses lu :yes:
Everything changes .. and always in a good way. Learn to love and accept the changes. As brokendownangel says :yes:
XXX more…
In response to: "Power of photos" 7 days old
by stmss [Member]
You have yourself which, right now, is more important than anything else. x more…
In response to: "Power of photos" 7 days old
by brokendownangel Pro
In 10 years time you will look upon photos of now in much the same way - time marches on and photos stop us dead in our tracks, but memories are much more vibrant than photos - memories have sound, and emotion, some memories you can taste on your tongue - you can't do that with a photo x more…
In response to: "Power of photos" 7 days old
by malakeas Pro
You get over the photos from years gone by and learnt to move on. And you will embrace this new life as well my friend. x more…
In response to: "I feed you" 7 days old
by miramaze [Member]
I just popped in to see Banternotincluded - you were all there , my dear blogland friends :)
Yes , I share her views :)
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In response to: "Trick or treat? " 7 days old
by miramaze [Member]
You are so pretty Lu !
:)
XXX
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In response to: "I feed you" 8 days old
by malakeas Pro
I hear you my friend. I had to leave BlogLand when I was utterly crushed and weak. I could only return when I was solid and strong. And then in another version of myself. xx more…
In response to: "I feed you" 8 days old
by Bushka Pro
Brilliant! Now! Repeat this to yourself every day - at least once...as often as you like.."I like myself infinitely more than I did. My children like me more than they ever did." Hugs! ;)xx more…