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<feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><id>tag:bovary-today.blog.co.uk,2009-11-10:/</id><title>Life beyond adultery</title><link rel="self" href="http://bovary-today.blog.co.uk/feed/atom/comments/"/><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/"/><subtitle>Monogamy requires an extreme amount of energy for a very limited result, i.e. maintaining the relationship's status quo; as the years rub the patina of excitement off everybody's marriage, is introducing some variety, or even just desiring it, pernicious to one's commitment to their spouse? I found out, and the journey does not stop here.</subtitle><generator version="1.0">MokoFeed</generator><updated>2009-11-10T13:50:12+01:00</updated><entry><id>tag:bovary-today.blog.co.uk,2009-11-10:/2009/11/09/stolen-from-miramaze-7339453/#c11454199</id><title>In response to:Stolen from Miramaze.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/09/stolen-from-miramaze-7339453/#c11454199"/><author><name>malakeas</name></author><published>2009-11-10T03:03:11+01:00</published><updated>2009-11-10T03:03:11+01:00</updated><content type="html">I don't mind sleeping with Mr for a buck or two. hehehehe... xx</content></entry><entry><id>tag:bovary-today.blog.co.uk,2009-11-09:/2009/11/09/stolen-from-miramaze-7339453/#c11453218</id><title>In response to:Stolen from Miramaze.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/09/stolen-from-miramaze-7339453/#c11453218"/><author><name>miramaze</name></author><published>2009-11-09T23:10:36+01:00</published><updated>2009-11-09T23:10:36+01:00</updated><content type="html">No 13  - would never have imagined that &lt;br&gt;
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Thanks for the meme SJ - I got it from two others .&lt;br&gt;
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The cross... was a very big one. Upright. Mostly. </content></entry><entry><id>tag:bovary-today.blog.co.uk,2009-11-09:/2009/11/09/stolen-from-miramaze-7339453/#c11451830</id><title>In response to:Stolen from Miramaze.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/09/stolen-from-miramaze-7339453/#c11451830"/><author><name>sidejump</name></author><published>2009-11-09T21:09:25+01:00</published><updated>2009-11-09T21:09:25+01:00</updated><content type="html">I introduced this meme on here you know :) &lt;br&gt;
how did you make love on a cross?</content></entry><entry><id>tag:bovary-today.blog.co.uk,2009-11-09:/2009/11/09/stolen-from-miramaze-7339453/#c11451426</id><title>In response to:Stolen from Miramaze.</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/09/stolen-from-miramaze-7339453/#c11451426"/><author><name>Old-Nick</name></author><published>2009-11-09T20:34:10+01:00</published><updated>2009-11-09T20:34:10+01:00</updated><content type="html">Number 4 - damn good answer. Married women who snear at prostitutes really need to have a think.&lt;br&gt;
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;)</content></entry><entry><id>tag:bovary-today.blog.co.uk,2009-11-09:/2009/11/08/that-place-i-used-to-go-to-7334266/#c11447730</id><title>In response to:That place I used to go to</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/08/that-place-i-used-to-go-to-7334266/#c11447730"/><author><name>malakeas</name></author><published>2009-11-09T13:54:01+01:00</published><updated>2009-11-09T13:54:01+01:00</updated><content type="html">(((Hugs)))</content></entry><entry><id>tag:bovary-today.blog.co.uk,2009-11-09:/2009/11/08/that-place-i-used-to-go-to-7334266/#c11447118</id><title>In response to:That place I used to go to</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/08/that-place-i-used-to-go-to-7334266/#c11447118"/><author><name>Bushka</name></author><published>2009-11-09T12:48:57+01:00</published><updated>2009-11-09T12:48:57+01:00</updated><content type="html">Glad you went...&lt;img src="http://kolobok.us/smiles/icq/yes.gif"&gt;&lt;img src="http://bestsmileys.com/hugging/4.gif"&gt;xx</content></entry><entry><id>tag:bovary-today.blog.co.uk,2009-11-09:/2009/11/08/that-place-i-used-to-go-to-7334266/#c11445792</id><title>In response to:That place I used to go to</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/08/that-place-i-used-to-go-to-7334266/#c11445792"/><author><name>sidejump</name></author><published>2009-11-09T10:11:55+01:00</published><updated>2009-11-09T10:11:55+01:00</updated><content type="html">sounds a wonderful experience, and what you needed. I hope you will go back.</content></entry><entry><id>tag:bovary-today.blog.co.uk,2009-11-09:/2009/11/08/that-place-i-used-to-go-to-7334266/#c11445008</id><title>In response to:That place I used to go to</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/08/that-place-i-used-to-go-to-7334266/#c11445008"/><author><name>stmss</name></author><published>2009-11-09T08:19:21+01:00</published><updated>2009-11-09T08:19:21+01:00</updated><content type="html">I'm glad that you went.x</content></entry><entry><id>tag:bovary-today.blog.co.uk,2009-11-09:/2009/11/07/quantum-solace-7327163/#c11444090</id><title>In response to:Quantum solace</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/07/quantum-solace-7327163/#c11444090"/><author><name>lucreziaborgia</name></author><published>2009-11-09T00:31:15+01:00</published><updated>2009-11-09T00:31:15+01:00</updated><content type="html">No... thank you. That is a nice compliment. You took a week on my posts? I am flattered, really flattered. &lt;br&gt;
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Everything changes .. and always in a good way. Learn to love and accept the changes. As brokendownangel says :yes:&lt;br&gt;
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Yes , I share her views :) &lt;br&gt;
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