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<rss version="0.92"><channel><title>Life beyond adultery</title><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/</link><description>Monogamy requires an extreme amount of energy for a very limited result, i.e. maintaining the relationship's status quo; as the years rub the patina of excitement off everybody's marriage, is introducing some variety, or even just desiring it, pernicious to one's commitment to their spouse? I found out, and the journey does not stop here.</description><language>en-EU</language><docs>http://backend.userland.com/rss092</docs><image><title>Life beyond adultery</title><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/</link><url>http://data5.blog.de/design/preview/79/127e78391c4884e5ee68ef6be99a99_160x200.jpg</url></image><item><title>In response to:White coats and blue overalls</title><description>At least it is read from time to time hun, mine sits on a dusty old bookshelf begging to be flipped through ;)</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/18/white-coats-and-blue-overalls-7410449/#c11546741</link><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 17:32:38 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:White coats and blue overalls</title><description>LOL. I'll look it up. Can't hurt! x</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/18/white-coats-and-blue-overalls-7410449/#c11546415</link><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:52:12 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:White coats and blue overalls</title><description>Absolutely. There is a lot of truth and sense in that. x</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/18/white-coats-and-blue-overalls-7410449/#c11546404</link><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:51:25 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:White coats and blue overalls</title><description>Just as well you are not DOCTOR Who, eh? &lt;br&gt;
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I would say that until a few months ago my body performed better than when it was younger. I have led a sedentary life, only really becoming dynamic in the evening when I have the boys and need to match their energy levels. Amazing, how a damaged spirit can have an impact on the body too. So you sprained your ankle. I don't learn my lessons, no...    </description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/18/white-coats-and-blue-overalls-7410449/#c11546399</link><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:50:58 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:White coats and blue overalls</title><description>BDA, that made me smile. Yes, it does its own Mechanic. I hope the next chapter contains some good pages, as this book is getting a little tatty and gloomy! &lt;br&gt;
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x</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/18/white-coats-and-blue-overalls-7410449/#c11546382</link><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:48:54 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Little and big lies, little and big love</title><description>Why? Because I lied about my age or because I want to marry my son, a modern Jocasta? Just as well that Mr Ex-Husband is not called Laius! x</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/17/little-and-big-lies-little-and-big-love-7399263/#c11546361</link><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:47:07 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:White coats and blue overalls</title><description>Have you looked at Louise Hay's, 'You can Heal your Life?'&lt;br&gt;
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(Sorry if you have had enough of self help books from your ex :)) )</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/18/white-coats-and-blue-overalls-7410449/#c11544185</link><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 13:02:13 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:White coats and blue overalls</title><description>maybe it is stress as well. Our bodies often give us outward signals of inner pain, and you have been through a heck of a lot recently. </description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/18/white-coats-and-blue-overalls-7410449/#c11543064</link><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 10:59:34 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:White coats and blue overalls</title><description>Bodies are so bloody traitorous arent they?  They let us down when we really need them the most.  I hope there is something you can take to ease the pains, I suspect your strength of spirit will rise to the fore like a phoenix from the ashes this time though, and that will be enough to carry you through to the next chapter!&lt;br&gt;
And the car of which you metaphorically speak has it's own mechanic anyway x&lt;br&gt;
 </description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/18/white-coats-and-blue-overalls-7410449/#c11541292</link><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 05:23:15 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Little and big lies, little and big love</title><description>how lovely written.  we are as young as our mind is, i believe</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/17/little-and-big-lies-little-and-big-love-7399263/#c11541173</link><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 03:34:07 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:White coats and blue overalls</title><description>It's quite frustrating when the mind is still young and active but it's demands on the body cannot be met with the same response and speed as in our younger days.&lt;br&gt;
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Your mind tells you that you're still able to jump the garden gate,just like you did as a teenager but the body reminds you otherwise after initiating flight............   1 sprained ankle later.....lesson learnt</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/18/white-coats-and-blue-overalls-7410449/#c11540567</link><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 00:21:29 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Little and big lies, little and big love</title><description>Sometimes I could hug you.&lt;br&gt;
D x</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/17/little-and-big-lies-little-and-big-love-7399263/#c11524620</link><pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 17:03:48 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Little and big lies, little and big love</title><description>we women are so vain about our ages. I remember my mother would never tell us hers. Your oldest son sounds like he is following in your fathers footsteps with his adherence to detail etc. The innocence of young souls, which so sadly is lost as we get older.</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/17/little-and-big-lies-little-and-big-love-7399263/#c11522955</link><pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 13:50:37 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Sleep well, my darling</title><description>I think I do. When that happened I didn't know whether to laugh or cry. Tears came to my eyes when I thought of what could have happened.. and yes .. guilt etc etc .. but also joy and pride that my baby had managed .. he coped ! He's always been good at finding his way :) Bless .. bless your babies too xxxx</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/12/sleep-well-my-darling-7362334/#c11489260</link><pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 17:27:25 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Sleep well, my darling</title><description>She is wonderful. As a way to ease the load, I am having both her daughter and her nephew (she looks after him continuously as her younger sister is not very interested) for a sleepover. To give her a Friday off. I shan't have a Friday off, of course, but I'll have great material for a new post...   </description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/12/sleep-well-my-darling-7362334/#c11487831</link><pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 14:57:46 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Sleep well, my darling</title><description>at least she got on the bus to look for your son. Rosie really is good.</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/12/sleep-well-my-darling-7362334/#c11486073</link><pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 11:51:13 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Sleep well, my darling</title><description>Ah. So you know exactly how I feel. x</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/12/sleep-well-my-darling-7362334/#c11485218</link><pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 10:23:04 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Sleep well, my darling</title><description>Poor luv ! &lt;br&gt;
The prof fell asleep on the bus on his way back from school to the child minder's house.He was only 7 or 8 at the time. He fell asleep on the bus and woke up when it stopped at the end stop on the other side of town. !!!&lt;br&gt;
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Fortunately he found the right bus back and turned up there an hour or so later than usual. This was before mobile phones so I didn't get to know about it until I picked him up later that day :roll: Shock and relief xxx</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/12/sleep-well-my-darling-7362334/#c11483301</link><pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 01:09:22 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Will you?</title><description>very good. We are both poetic today. Must be something in the air</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/10/will-you-7345071/#c11458756</link><pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 16:08:03 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Will you?</title><description>lovely.. X </description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/10/will-you-7345071/#c11458646</link><pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:55:23 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Stolen from Miramaze.</title><description>I don't mind sleeping with Mr for a buck or two. hehehehe... xx</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/09/stolen-from-miramaze-7339453/#c11454199</link><pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 03:03:11 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Stolen from Miramaze.</title><description>No 13  - would never have imagined that &lt;br&gt;
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Thanks for the meme SJ - I got it from two others .&lt;br&gt;
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X</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/09/stolen-from-miramaze-7339453/#c11453218</link><pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 23:10:36 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:One needs a family chart</title><description>Then all grows to be impossibly romantic and the longing stretches across the miles and across time. I must admit that I am in a funny mood tonight, and may find 'situations' rather amusing, for some reason. I'll probably change my mind tomorrow. </description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/09/one-needs-a-family-chart-7339991/#c11453152</link><pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 23:03:48 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:One needs a family chart</title><description>live as far away as possible? what are you trying to say, way too subtle for me</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/09/one-needs-a-family-chart-7339991/#c11452621</link><pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 22:14:01 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:One needs a family chart</title><description>I was going to send you an image of 'Wedding Bells' but thought better....;)xx</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/09/one-needs-a-family-chart-7339991/#c11452528</link><pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 22:07:18 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Stolen from Miramaze.</title><description>The hypocrisy of it, in so many cases! </description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/09/stolen-from-miramaze-7339453/#c11452031</link><pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 21:28:17 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Stolen from Miramaze.</title><description>Ah-ha. Very good idea, SJ. Credit where credit is due. &lt;br&gt;
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The cross... was a very big one. Upright. Mostly. </description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/09/stolen-from-miramaze-7339453/#c11451992</link><pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 21:25:40 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Stolen from Miramaze.</title><description>I introduced this meme on here you know :) &lt;br&gt;
how did you make love on a cross?</description><link>http://Bovary-today.blog.co.uk/2009/11/09/stolen-from-miramaze-7339453/#c11451830</link><pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 21:09:25 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>In response to:Stolen from Miramaze.</title><description>Number 4 - damn good answer. Married women who snear at prostitutes really need to have a think.&lt;br&gt;
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